Concubines: Novelty & Intimacy in 2022

April 29, 2022

One term for a Concubine is a woman or many women who have a sexual relationship with a man, but they are not married. Some of these women participated willingly, and in history, many were slaves.

Concubines are known to have gone back as far as the ancient times of Babylonia and Mesopotamia and were prevalent in the Roman and Chinese Empires. Concubines were made up of men, most of who were married, and the wife got all the perks of being married, but then the husband had other women or a concubine. These concubines gave the men the ability to have many children and a certain prestige of having many women.

The term for concubine in 2022 could be considered in relation to polyamory but meaning the same.

Have you ever heard of a male concubine or stable? I can tell you that here in 2022, they do exist. They are made up of men of different ages, nationalities, incomes, careers, and many are married. What do they have in common? The lovely woman who holds their heart, hand, and wants and needs in her hand. She is happily married to a wonderful man. Actually, they have one of the best marriages going on; she is lovely, and so is he... and he knows about and supports it all.

They are both professional, have great careers, are financially secure, are fun to be around. Their secret? She has a concubine, a stable of men that will be there for her any time she wants. Her priority and her love are for her husband, and she has a line of men who wish to just a little piece of what she has and what she is willing to give of herself; they are eager to provide the same and more. Just like in the Roman and Chinese Empires, this husband is first and has all the rights and benefits.

Below is a comprehensive list of ways to spice up your sex life (which should already be spicy if you’re engaging in concubine relationships) and keep things novel and interspersed with memorable experiences.

Adult Intimate Toys

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BDSM is a little more extreme, and we provide discreet delivery for your play boxes if you’re looking for bondage gear or bondage toys. If you’re looking to enjoy dom/sub play, it’s a great way for you and your partner to experience power exchanges, engage on deeper levels of trust, and physical and emotional closeness. You’ll become lost in the present moment as the worries of the day fade away, and you focus on enjoying every small detail of the moment.

Intimate Lubricant

If you’re looking to add novelty and fun into any relationship, then edible lube is a great option. There are many types of flavored lube to choose from which will really amp up the energy in the bedroom. Just like there are different “love languages,” the type of sensory processing that a person’s brain prioritizes in sex can differ.

For example, as Dr. Jess O’Reilly, a clinical sexologist who specializes in mental health related issues, categorizes certain types of lovers as “gustatory” which means that they are more responsive and attentive to taste-driven sensing and experiences. Just like some people are more visually-driven or highly auditory, some people are connected to and driven by taste-related experiences. Certain smells and tastes help with mood, setting, and recalling fond memories. Most flavoured lubricant products are water-based, but there are also silicone or oil-based intimate lubricant.

Novelty & Intimacy in the Modern Age

Yes, it is 2022 and concubines and stables are alive and well; We’ve outlined just how common these types of relationships have been throughout human history, and in today’s modern age, that empowers strong and confident women to be at the head of these relationships. Use our tips from this article not just for concubine relationships, but you can incorporate the types of adult intimate toys that we include in our Intimate Play Boxes into your routine to introduce a new level of novelty and intimacy.